DIVORCE MEDIATION THAT TRANSFORMS CONFLICTS INTO CONSTRUCTIVE CONVERSATIONS.

I understand you're going through one of the most challenging times in your life. The thought of divorce - let alone sitting down to negotiate with your spouse or partner - might feel impossible right now. As a divorce mediator, I create a space where even the most difficult conversations can become manageable, while helping you protect what matters most: your and your family’s future, and your financial security.

Research shows that 7 out of 10 couples who choose litigation report making this decision during moments of peak emotional distress, often driven by a desire for vindication or revenge. I understand this impulse - it's a natural human response to deep hurt. However, studies have found that these emotionally driven decisions lead to an average of $15,000-$20,000 in additional legal fees per spouse, with some cases escalating to $100,000s in legal costs alone. What many people don't realize is that once you sign with a litigation attorney, you're typically prohibited from communicating directly with your spouse - all communication must go through the attorneys, often with substantial fees for each email or call. Breaking this agreement by talking directly to your spouse can result in significant penalties and may even compromise your case. This requirement often escalates both emotional tension and legal costs, as even simple decisions must be filtered through lawyers. What started as your separation and divorce, transforms into a battle between attorneys, each incentivized to prolong the conflict. Instead of focusing on preserving your assets and securing your financial future, resources are drained in an escalating cycle of legal maneuvers and counter-maneuvers.